With the help our superhero photographer, we finally found an officiant!
This morning at our home we had the pleasure to meet with Miriam (Mimi) Phillips from Personally Spiritual Wedding Ceremonies. Before her visit, Mimi and I were in contact through email, where I gave her some basic information about our ceremony. While here, our conversation was able to flow very easily and smoothly and we were helped to realize that there are quite a few areas of planning that we had not considered before. Mimi asked us questions, let us tell her information that we wanted to share, and she gave us a lot of materials to look at when we have some time, including copies of ceremonies which she has performed in the past and also a book about planning wedding ceremonies. Mimi also provided us with documentation of her reverend status and explained the process she went through to be ordained.
We felt very comfortable with her and knew right away that we want to work with her. (Also, her fees are extremely reasonable, especially considering the costs we had been quoted from other officiants!) Our plan is to have a simple rehearsal, for which we are not being charged extra because it will only include three people or so.
One of the best things we liked about our meeting this morning is that Mimi did not push us at all to make a decision today, and even offered to provide us with references for other officiants if we felt that she was not right for us. She did not want us to sign a contract today and wanted us to think about it for a little while first. Ultimately, we spent about 30 seconds thinking about it after she left before we decided that she was perfect for us - which is probably not what she had in mind, but this is the way we work. I've learned throughout this planning process that we can almost always tell right away which vendors and professionals are right for us, usually within the first five minutes of meeting with them. Follow your gut has been our rule all along, and I think it is some very sound advice.
Overall, we are thrilled to have found Mimi and we could not be happier that she will be the officiant for our ceremony!Tweet